Kabelo Chabalala
3 minute read
3 Feb 2020
2:55 pm

There are many reasons men don’t have kids, so let’s be careful

Kabelo Chabalala

Here I was thinking that we left some of the insensitive and inconsiderate conversations in 2019, but was I absolutely wrong.

Kabelo Chabalala.

The other day, I put up a short video of a cute family that was singing the famous song 'Brown Skin Girl' on my WhatsApp status. Some of my contacts revered the nuclear family that consists of a mom, dad and their two beautiful daughters for their vocal gifts. However, there were a handful of people who turned this into an attack. "You are 29 in a few weeks' time. Where is your family? You are busy admiring other people and their families and yet you don't have of your own." The comment cut so deep. I found it so insensitive...