TZANEEN – As the festive season approaches, many families are feeling the pressure of tight budgets and rising costs.

But for Themba Mhlongo, founder of Step Ahead Foundation, Christmas has never been about material abundance; it’s about gratitude, unity, and love.

“Christmas is a time of spiritual reflection, family unity, and gratitude,” said Mhlongo. “It’s less about gifts and more about creating memories, honouring traditions, and sharing love.”

Adjusting traditions without losing the spirit

Mhlongo believes that celebrating Christmas, even modestly, is vital for preserving hope and joy during difficult times.

“It reminds us that togetherness and kindness are priceless, especially when money is tight.”

Over the years, Mhlongo’s family has learned to adjust their traditions without losing the festive spirit.

“We’ve simplified gift exchanges, focused on shared meals and storytelling, and embraced homemade decorations,” he explains. “The spirit remains, even if the scale changes.”

When it comes to finances, Mhlongo believes in careful planning.

“We start early in the year, setting aside small amounts monthly and listing priorities. We focus on essentials… food, a few meaningful gifts, and activities that bring joy.”

To keep spending in check, the family agrees on modest budgets for gifts, food, and décor, and they avoid using credit.

“We focus on what we can afford. Planning ahead and embracing simplicity are key,” he notes.

Creative, heartfelt gifting on a budget

Mhlongo’s approach to gifting is creative and heartfelt.

“Handwritten letters, framed family photos, homemade treats, and coupon books for chores or outings. These gifts carry love and thoughtfulness.”

With a large family, they make use of Secret Santa draws and group gifts like board games to keep things fun but affordable.

“We also love making DIY gifts like beaded jewellery, knitted scarves, or personalised mugs. They mean so much more,” he explained.

For the Christmas meal, the Mhlongos plan a simple but hearty menu and share costs among relatives.

Favourite festive dishes include pap and stew, roast chicken, chakalaka, and homemade biscuits.

The family decorates affordably by reusing ornaments, making paper crafts, and using natural materials like pinecones.