Starting school: Helpful tips for parents and guardians
Expert tips to help parents and young children ease into the new school year with confidence, routine and calm.
THE uniform is ready, the shoes are shiny, the school bag is packed, and everyone is excited, maybe even a little nervous. Here are some supportive tips from former principal Scilla Edmonds and pre-primary school principal Trish Bentley to help you and your child enjoy a smooth start to the school year.
Building excitement and independence
Edmonds advised parents to let the little ones dress up in their new uniform.
“Show family members, take photos, this builds pride and positive anticipation. Get a proper-sized school bag. Avoid tiny bags; your child will need space for extra clothes and ‘just in case’ items, especially during potty training.”
Edmonds said parents should encourage their child to dress and undress, pack their own bag, and learn simple routines independently.
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“They must start routines early. Parents should establish earlier bedtimes, morning routines, and breakfast habits during the holidays,” she said, adding that parents or guardians should choose age-appropriate books and talk about the pictures to build language, imagination, and comfort.
Creating a smooth school experience
Bentley mentioned that everything should be labelled; uniform items, shoes, stationery, lunch containers, and water bottles, as everything tends to look the same.
To get them ready for the school year, Bentley said parents should talk positively about school.
“Speak about new friends, fun activities, and the exciting things they will learn. Keep calm, children easily pick up on your emotions. When you are calm and confident, they feel secure too,” said Bentley.
She said parents must reassure their child by using encouraging words such as: “You can do this!”, “I’m proud of you!”, “You’re going to learn so much!”
Share with educators
The principal of New Germany Lutheran Pre-primary School said important information such as allergies, asthma, epilepsy, and medical needs must always be shared with the school.
“Support the teacher. Clear communication builds trust and helps your child settle. Be on time every day. Arriving late can make little ones shy and unsettled. Being there for the first ring and morning discussion helps them feel part of the group. Don’t send toys from home. It often causes conflict – schools have plenty of toys.”
She advised to pack healthy lunches.
“No sweets for bribery in the mornings; encourage nutritious habits.”
The first day……….
Edmonds, a former principal of an Eco award-winning school, stated that if allowed, walk the children to the classroom.
“Be honest, say goodbye confidently, and avoid sneaking away, this undermines trust. Keep the goodbye short. Take a quick photo if you like, but don’t linger. Prolonging the farewell often makes things harder.”
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Talking from experience, she said most children settle within one to two weeks.
“Some adjust immediately, others take a little longer. Be patient and consistent. Take a breath. Give yourself time. Try not to call the school unless absolutely necessary, they’ll contact you if needed.”
She further advised parents to pick up children on time. “Children understand routine quickly; being late can cause anxiety and make them reluctant to return. Listen to their stories. Ask about their day and show interest in their art and activities.”
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