Dialogue aims to empower Thembisa boys
Having grown up without a father, Boya, now a father himself, took three boys from the Thembisa Child Welfare under his wing.
Mojalefa Boya, born and raised in Thembisa, had a challenging upbringing that shaped the man he is today.
He spent part of his childhood in a children’s home, where he experienced the struggles of growing up without a conventional family structure.
Raised without a father, he was guided by father figures who taught him discipline, cleanliness and strong moral character.
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When Boya found stability, he embarked on a mission to support boys in Thembisa.
He knew many organisations focused on empowering girls but overlooked boys, who were left without adequate guidance and mentorship.
Determined to address this gap, he decided to make a difference.
On February 14, Boya hosted a dialogue dinner for boys, inviting influential and inspirational men from Thembisa to engage, celebrate and encourage the next generation.
Some key speakers were the CoE Executive Mayor Nkosindiphile Xhakaza, author Siyabonga Mthembu and Noah Moleya of TALTA.
These men, all successful and from Thembisa, shared their experiences to inspire the boys, reinforcing the message that they were not alone and should feel empowered to speak up about their challenges.
Having grown up without a father, Boya, now a father himself, took three boys from the Thembisa Child Welfare under his wing.
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He chose to mentor them, hoping to guide and lead them to succeed. His ties to the home where he once lived still drive his commitment to supporting the children, ensuring they have essential resources and care.
Speaking at the event, Boya highlighted the importance of such gatherings in shaping the heroes of tomorrow.
“We need to return to a culture where every child is treated as our own. Today is about giving a voice to boys told that men do not cry.
“We must change this mindset and foster a spirit of togetherness in our communities.
“Too many children are losing focus to drugs and other harmful substances. As fathers, we must feel the pain of seeing a child destroy their future and take action to help them.
“This is a deeply personal issue because I know what it is like to grow up without a father. I want every boy to experience the love and support they deserve.”
Xhakaza gave an inspiring speech about his journey.
“We want to show our love and support for boys because they are the future leaders of our country.
“At this event, I had the privilege of hearing from incredible speakers who reminded me of the power of love and mentorship.
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“Dreaming is essential. I have faced hardships when I could not have everything I wanted. I attended primary and secondary school in this area, just like many of you.
“Some of you aspire to be doctors, pilots or accountants like me. It is possible if you stay focused and undistracted by negative influences. The greatest asset in life is staying committed to your dreams.”
The event on the evening of Valentine’s Day was well received. While many celebrated romantic love, these men shared their love and support with the boys of Thembisa Child Welfare, ensuring they felt valued and cared for.
In closing, Moleya donated food parcels to a person he identified as in need. It was an evening filled with love, mentorship and hope, leaving a lasting impact on everyone present.
The Thato One Big Family, a home that cares for many children in Thembisa, also attended.
