Gauteng social worker champions the rights supfor boys on International Day

Lesego Mathye, a registered social worker based in Protea Glen, is passionate about raising awareness for the International Day of the Boy Child, celebrated annually on May 16.

Founded by Dr. Jerome Teelucksingh, this day aims to bring attention to boys’ challenges and circumstances.

Mathye’s experience working with children in conflict with the law has given her insight into the struggles boys face, including substance abuse, absent fathers, identity crises, peer pressure, and gangsterism.

“I have seen first-hand that most children who engage in criminal activities and delinquent behaviours are boys,” Mathye said.

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She believes boys often receive less recognition than girls, except for International Men’s Day in November.

According to Mathye, one of the most significant pressures affecting boys is emotional suppression.

“Boys are taught not to cry, discouraging them from expressing their emotions healthily. Instead, they often express anger and disappointment through destructive behaviour.”

Mathye suggests that parents, aunts, and uncles can create a tradition of having honest and deep conversations with their sons or nephews every month. This can give boys the courage to express themselves without fear of judgment.

Additionally, Mathye recommends that schools and churches host workshops or seminars to raise awareness about mental illness and its impact on boys.

Mental health practitioners, teachers, and successful individuals can be invited to share their experiences and encourage boys to stay in school.

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Mathye advocates for boys’ rights as a social worker by assessing and identifying their needs. She believes social workers can collaborate with schools to support boys through counselling and mentorship programs.

Mathye emphasises the importance of community involvement, quoting an African proverb:

“The child who is not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel the warmth.” By working together, Mathye hopes to create a more supportive environment for boys to thrive.