Police launch handbook to help keep children safe

Child safety was in the spotlight as iLembe Police Cluster launched its Child Safety Handbook containing tips for parents and children.

Police cluster spokesperson Captain Alex Thomson said these tips are especially useful when walking home from school or playing outside.

“It is crucial for children to understand the potential dangers outside their usual safety zone, and for parents to educate them on the importance of learning about child safety,” he said.

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Personal safety for children
• Ensure your child knows their full names, their parents’ names, their home address and emergency phone numbers

• Encourage children to tell their parents about things that make them feel scared, uncomfortable or sad

• Teach children the difference between a good secret and a bad secret. A good secret is fun to keep, while a bad secret feels bad and can be scary

• Always know your child’s whereabouts and be aware of their friends and the places they visit

• Never leave a child unattended in a vehicle, whether it is running or not

• Listen to your child and pay attention if they express discomfort or unwillingness to be with someone or go somewhere

• Teach your child that they have the right to refuse any unwanted, uncomfortable or confusing touch or actions by others, and encourage them to get out of those situations as quickly as possible

• Be sensitive to any changes in your child’s behaviour or attitude

• Encourage open communication and learn how to be an active listener. If your child shares concerns, stay calm, reassuring and non-judgemental

‘Stranger danger’
• Teach your child to never share their name or address with strangers

• Always use the ‘buddy system’ to avoid your child walking or playing alone outside or in public places

• Ensure your child keeps a safe distance from strangers and their cars, even if a stranger seems friendly

• Teach your child to always ask your permission before accepting gifts from strangers

• Children should know that adults, especially strangers, rarely ask children for help. Explain to your child that men and women are strangers

• Develop code words with trusted individuals who can pick up your child, and teach your child the words. Inform them to not go with anyone who does not know the code words

Safety at home
• If your child stays alone at home after school, always teach them to keep the doors and windows locked

• Ensure your child knows how to contact you, the SAPS or another close relative in an emergency

• When children are alone at home, they should tell people who phone that you are there but are busy and cannot answer the phone. The person who is phoning can call back later

• Teach your child to end any telephone calls with strangers immediately and hang up the phone if they continue to talk.

“We urge parents to play an active role in the safety of their children.

“We also encourage parents to keep track of the friends their child keeps, as well as the social media interactions older children may experience, as there are fake profiles and predators out there who can lead innocent children astray,” said iLembe district commissioner Major General Anthony Gopaul.

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