
Have you been hurt by someone who you loved more than you loved yourself?
Is your heart the victim of love being your “circumstance”?
They say love blinds us, I say love bleeds us.
Gone are those days when hurt was for women, now even men are openly in conversations about their hurt.
What makes us hurt each other?
Is it really because we were hurt by others?
Is it really because we do not understand each other?
Is it because some people just do not realise what is in front of them?
I ask myself these questions because it seems we have come up with terms that do not heal the pain we feel to make hurt seem all right.
What happened to loving someone with the breath, smiles and tears of all your life so if God chooses you can love better after death?
They say what you do not know can’t hurt you, but sometimes even your instincts are hurtful because you can’t prove them.
Despite it being hard to forget we will soon have to forgive and rise above our pain.
We will soon have to learn how to love again like angels learning how to fly.
Love is not our enemy, hate is!
Whitney Houston sang“I will always love you” but she also divorced later after the classic track.
The bottom line is love is a verb, if it is not shown, it shall not be recognised or even received back.
We all have been in relationships we did not know the essential meaning of yet stayed until there was no longer room to pretend.
We all have been in a relationship that lacks comfort even though there was communication.Our greatest fear though should not be being hurt but loving beyond measure.
We should not allow our previous experiences to prevent what possibly could be our most memorable experiences in our lives.
So many young and old people on a daily basis are walking about with the anger of an x lover who has hurt them and moved on with his or her life.
We should not allow that pain to be a burden for too long because we might be preventing new eternal love.
Lastly love freely, love unconditionally and make peace with your broken pieces.