Palliative care nurse fosters strong relationships with patients
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In 2019 Des Hack received news that would forever change his life as well as his family’s.
He was diagnosed with stage four cancer that had affected his right kidney, hips, ribs, spine as well as vertebra.
Palliative care and oncological treatment was needed and that is when the Hack family’s journey with Hospice East Rand began.
“If you could give an award for compassion, dedication and palliative wisdom, Sr Heilie Turner would receive it,” is how Sandra Hack, Des’ wife described the palliative nurse assigned to their care.
Des was encouraged to register with Hospice East Rand for care, support and guidance during his treatment, a process that blossomed into a compassionate friendship between caregiver and family.
Having an unwavering zest for life is the theme that runs throughout Des’ journey with cancer.
In between treatments, and while his appetite was poor, the couple still enjoyed trips to local game reserves and supported their children and grandchildren during their memorable life events.
In 2020 Sr Heilie started visiting Des more regularly to monitor his health, pain and other needs.
She guided the family through his different levels of pain, what medication to administer and why.
She was always thorough and the Hacks felt so comfortable with her that they considered her a house friend.
She would often enjoy lunch with them while checking in on Des and even celebrated Sandra’s birthday. sitting next to his bed, eating chocolate cake.
“I am grateful for Sr Heilie’s intervention. She was always quick to respond and lend a hand,” said Sandra.
“When things were overwhelming and Des needed to be admitted to hospital during Covid-19, Sr Heilie coached me on what to do.
“She wrote a full medical history which ensured Des received the appropriate treatment needed as soon as he arrived at the ER.”
In January Des’ dream of walking his daughter down the aisle was nearly shattered when he was admitted to hospital in Gqeberha, but his fighting spirit once again prevailed and he was discharged with mere hours to spare.
With great pride, he ‘wheeled’ down the aisle with his daughter by his side.
Des passed away on February 15.
Sr Heilie supported the Hack family through this trying time.
“She is an absolute angel from the time we first met her,” said Sandra.
“Her visits were not only medical but we spent a lot of time laughing and having fun.”
With regards to Hospice care, Sandra said it is important to put your pride in your pocket and reach out for help, because you will never regret it!
Hospice East Rand is a non-profit organisation which is heavily reliant on public support and donations as many patients cannot afford palliative care.
For more information or to become involved contact Hospice East Rand at info@hospiceeastrand.co.za alternatively on 011 422 1531 or 064 989 2076.
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