Kids Haven teens get real about gender-based violence
Most of the boys have been in the unfortunate position where they were witness to mob justice.
Although the annual 16 Days of Activism for No Violence Against Women and Children campaign drew to a close on December 10, Kids Haven is continuing its efforts to bring an end to the cycle of abuse.
“As South Africa grapples with this pandemic, we aim to continue to respond proactively by offering education and support throughout communities hardest hit by violence,” said Sam Mokgopha, CEO of Kids Haven.
“We have identified communities within our service areas where GBV is most prevalent and continue to target our efforts by hosting interactive workshops, counselling and educational seminars.”
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Realising that the youth holds the key to breaking the cycle of abuse, the topic of GBV has been included in the organisation’s youth skills programme which includes pre-care, in-care and aftercare.
“Workshops attended by our boys and girls revealed that they have interesting ideas about curbing the problem but common misconceptions persist,” he said.
Workshop facilitator Annie Maboea said topics of discussions with the boys in its care centre around gender, power, violence and other related topics.
“Most of the boys have been in the unfortunate position where they were witness to mob justice, many of which are struggling to cope with the trauma,” said Maboea.
“They have also witnessed domestic violence at the hands of their fathers. Other concerns raised are traditional practices and cultural violence.”
She said that these workshops are crucial for these youths and is making an impact on how they view their roles in society.
At the end of each session attendees are asked to give their feedback, here are some of their views:
• Safety comes first. Violence is never the answer.
• Do not engage in casual sex.
• You have a right to say “no.”
• Avoid being drugged and raped, do not accept open drinks from strangers.
• Listen and stop when your partner says “no.”
• Respect and love your partner. Intimate partner violence is still GBV.
For more information about Kids Haven and its ongoing programmes or to become involved email hello@kidshaven.co.za
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