Reiger Park event shines a light on men’s mental health

Community of Hope Multipurpose Centre hosted a Healing Boys in Men Programme on June 13 to tackle the silent mental health crisis among men and boy in commemoration of Men’s Mental Awareness Month.

The event aimed to provide a healing platform where men and boys could come together to unpack the emotional, social, and psychological challenges they face daily.
Topics included mental health, gender-based violence (GBV), false accusations, substance abuse, family dynamics, and the stigma surrounding male vulnerability.

Safe space to speak up
Elaine Appies, the centre manager, emphasised the importance of breaking the silence surrounding men’s mental health.

“We sometimes find that men are also victims, but they’re scared to speak out because of the social standards society has projected on them. Many men are suffering in silence. It affects their mental well-being and relationships. Some have even ended up in prison due to false accusations.

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”The centre, which also deals with GBV cases and counselling, highlighted a major gap: many men do not seek help even when they need it the most.
“We want to change the narrative. Healing is not just for women. Men need emotional support too,” Appies added.

Addressing drug abuse and suicide prevention
One of the most pressing issues discussed during the programme was substance abuse as a coping mechanism. The centre has seen a growing number of men turning to drugs instead of seeking emotional support.
“Substance abuse often becomes a temporary escape, but it leads to a deeper spiral. Some even go as far as dying by suicide. That is what we want to prevent.”

The programme included group discussions and open conversations about navigating relationships, family responsibilities, and emotional wellness.

Melusi Ngwenya, founder of uMelusi Osizabantu, was among the key speakers. He engaged with both men and young boys about healthy family dynamics, responsible relationships, and the importance of facing one’s emotions head-on.
“Men need to feel seen, heard, and understood. When we help boys early, we shape the men of tomorrow.”

A call for ongoing support
The Community of Hope Multipurpose Centre continues to offer free counselling services, GBV support programmes, and emotional healing sessions for all genders. Appies urged more men to step forward and make use of these services without shame or fear.

As Men’s Mental Health Awareness Month continues, the centre plans to host follow-up workshops and establish a peer-led support group for men in the community.
If you or someone you know is struggling with mental health issues, help is available. Contact the Community of Hope Multipurpose Centre on 072 127 9090 or visit your nearest support service.

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