A Lonehill woman’s emotional account of her long struggle with gambling addiction has reignited conversations around responsible gambling this festive season.

Nonhlanhla Robert, who began gambling as a teenager after being introduced to it by a friend, recently shared her story publicly with Fourways Review, revealing how frequent visits to Montecasino gradually spiralled into a long-term addiction that affected her finances, mental well-being, and relationships.

Her openness has brought renewed focus to gambling behaviours in the Fourways area, especially with December bonuses approaching and casino foot traffic expected to surge.

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In response, the South African Responsible Gambling Foundation (SARGF) is urging the public to approach gambling with increased caution, discipline, and awareness.

Sibongile Simelane-Quntana, from the foundation, said that while gambling can serve various purposes: entertainment, social interaction, or the thrill of risk, it should never compromise financial stability or personal well-being. “It is important for individuals to make informed decisions when choosing to gamble. While motivations may vary, responsible gambling practices help prevent potential financial difficulties and protect overall well-being.

“Gambling should always be approached with caution, as it can lead to adverse consequences, such as financial strain, mental health concerns, and challenges in relationships and social situations, especially for those who develop addictive behaviours.”

Simelane-Quntana advised gamblers to set a clear budget before placing any bets, and to strictly adhere to it. She added that choosing licensed and regulated gambling websites is essential for safety and accountability.

The SARGF also warned against consuming alcohol while gambling, as it impairs judgment and can lead to overspending.

Gamblers are encouraged to stay alert in public spaces, understand betting rules thoroughly, take regular breaks, and prioritise time with family. Engaging in alternative recreational activities can also help maintain healthy balance and mental well-being.

“Responsible gambling means understanding risks, setting strict limits, and knowing when to stop. With the right approach, individuals can enjoy gambling without jeopardising their financial stability or mental well-being.”

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Players are encouraged to use the self-assessment tool provided by the NRGP to evaluate the severity of their gambling behaviour. Access it here: https://responsiblegambling.org.za/?s=Self+Assessment+Tool&submit=Search

Robert’s story also serves as a reminder that family members are often the first to notice changes when gambling becomes harmful. Families are encouraged to look out for early gambling warning signs, such as secrecy, unexplained financial problems, borrowing money, or emotional distress.

According to Simelane-Quntana, the first step is education, understanding gambling addiction, recognising behavioural patterns, and learning how to support a loved one in distress. “The NRGP operates a 24/7 toll-free counselling line to assist both problem gamblers and their affected family members.”

For those who wish to gamble responsibly, especially individuals who may relate to Robert’s past experiences, Simelane-Quntana recommends several practical money-management strategies:
• Allow a trusted person to oversee or help manage your finances,
• Cancel credit and ATM cards, or hand them to the support person,
• Carry only limited cash and work with your bank to restrict ATM withdrawals,
• Inform loved ones about your financial boundaries so they don’t lend you money,
• Use co-signers for accounts and remove cash-withdrawal options from credit cards,
• Avoid handling other people’s money, especially in jobs involving cash,
• Do not keep large sums of money at home,
• Pay essential bills as soon as you are paid, preferably some in advance, and
• Set aside savings for meaningful future goals.

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