Give the gift of self this Christmas

When you think of Christmas the word ‘gift’ immediately pops into your head. But Cindy Glass, the owner and co-founder of Step Up Education Centres said that we should give our children more than just material gifts.

Cindy believes that by trying these gift-giving ideas, you can add happiness and peace to your family’s lives.

First is the gift of regular hugs: Hugs reduce stress and anxiety and they let your children know that you are there, physically and emotionally. They help them feel secure and connected to you!

The gift of sincere words of affirmation: Your children need to know that you believe in them, you sincerely want what’s best for them and that you are proud of their efforts in navigating the world. Encouragement and praise mean: “I see you and I am here for you.”

The gift of your time: Spending quality time with your children does not mean that you have to set aside hours of your day. It means that important actions such as eye contact, listening to understand, avoiding distraction when in communication with your child and being present in those moments is what counts. “I see you. I hear you” are priceless gifts!

The gift of being an excellent role model: Your children are watching what you do, how you choose to act in challenging situations, how you treat others and how much you value honesty, integrity, kindness etc. Teach them how to navigate the world by modelling values that you wish to see in them.

The gift of space: Children need space to experience their emotions, use their imaginations and explore their world safely. Most importantly, they need the space to be allowed to make mistakes in a safe, non-judgmental environment. Mistakes are important learning opportunities, finding solutions as a team builds trust and cements connection!

“Some gifts are of the material kind and that is all good and well. However, as parents, it is important to give your children the gifts that are priceless as well,” Cindy concluded.