Eight signs that your child may be using drugs

Most school pupils are busy writing their exams, and the end of the school year is fast approaching.

During the school holidays, teenagers have a large amount of free time and parents are warned to ensure that they know what their children are up to.

A common trend is for teenagers to host a ‘house party’. A variety of risky behaviours are seen at these parties, one of which is drug abuse. Here are some common signs to watch out for and some useful suggestions to prevent your child from becoming prone to drug abuse.

What to watch out for:

1. Drastic changes in appearance

This is one of the first cries for attention if that is what they are seeking.

2. Poor academic performance

Teens who use drugs sometimes are less likely to value academics. Search for drastic drops, not just little dips.

3. Change in eating and sleeping habits

Sudden increase or decrease in appetite.

4. Change in physical appearance

The teen may have slurred speech, bloodshot eyes, and unusual odor on breath, unusual drowsiness or fatigue. Watch their dressing as well.

5. Change in interest

Take seriously any rejection of interests that were once important to your child, like sports and hobbies.

6. Monitor their attitude

They might become much ruder and more rebellious than usual, and they might refuse to do any chores unless paid. They may have anger outbursts or sometimes become very withdrawn.

7. Friends

Their friends may be more rebellious than usual, and/or they might bring home new friends, or neglect their old ones.

8. Watch your purse

Monitor the loss of money or the disappearance of expensive items. Drug users often steal money or expensive items so that they can buy drugs.

NB: These are common symptoms of drug abuse and may not necessarily truly indicate drug addiction as the symptoms are very similar to those of other medical issues. You would have to visit a doctor to get a clearer perspective should you suspect that your teen is using drugs.

What can you do to prevent addiction or help your child?

* Set a reasonable curfew.

* Be awake and interact with them when they come home.

* Clearly and often tell your teen your expectations of him or her

* Talk with them in advance about situations that may arise around alcohol, tobacco, and other drugs.

* Discuss together ways to avoid uncomfortable situations.

* Offer your teen a safe ride home if they call. (That means you have to be available.)

* Take time to educate them on accurate information about alcohol, tobacco, and other drugs.

* Get to know your son’s or daughter’s friends and share with them your expectations about alcohol, tobacco, and other drugs. They appreciate knowing you care about them.

* Together, decide what the consequences will be should you have any evidence or suspicion of drug use.

* Youth will often spend the night out if they plan to abuse drugs. Know where they are going.

* Tell your son or daughter in advance you will be checking up. Then do it. Make sure they are where they say they are.

* If your son or daughter is using drugs in spite of all consequences, do not allow it in your home or in your presence.

* Reduce the easy accessibility of alcohol, prescribed medication and money around your home.

* Set a good example regarding health and safety.

* Engage in relationship strengthening activities with your child. Listen to their needs.

* Follow up on their behaviour and attendance at school.

Submitted by: Joyclyn Govender