Lim author’s debut book exposes hidden abuse realities
Unarine Netshivhazwaulu's book challenges abuse and exploitation, urging young victims to break their silence.
LIMPOPO – Unarine Netshivhazwaulu from Tshavhalovhedzi has released his debut book, ‘Otshinyani Fhumulani’, a powerful call for victims of abuse to break their silence and seek help.
Confident in the book’s potential to make a meaningful impact, Netshivhazwaulu writes about social issues, specifically the exploitation of young women by older men, commonly known as ‘blessers’.
“Young people today get involved with blessers and lose sight of their future, often using their family’s struggles as an excuse for their choices,” he explained.
Through Otshinyani Fhumulani, he sheds light on the silent suffering of many young girls and encourages them to speak out, despite the threats they may face.
“Failing to report these incidents can put their lives in danger. This book serves as a reminder that trusted family members should protect children, not be the source of their suffering,” he said.
He said it is important for parents to be educated, and he urged them to understand that poverty should not determine their children’s futures. While accepting one’s circumstances is crucial, he believes no child should be forced into harmful situations as a result.
Netshivhazwaulu’s passion for reading and writing started in his early years at Sendedza Primary School. Determined to reach a wider audience, especially young people, he chose to write in Tshivenda.
“As someone who grew up in Venda, writing in my home language was a natural way to express myself. I want this book to reach as many young people as possible, so they can recognise the dangers of associating with abusers. I also hope it will be read in schools,” he said.




