HIGHVELD – Capt Lizzie Koekemoer, commander of the Family Violence, Child Protection and Sexual Offence Unit (FCS), gave women some tips on what to do when they are in danger. She said when women are walking in the streets, they should try to walk in pairs and walk in areas that are well-lit and well-travelled.
“When you walk with a friend, make sure you have the necessary information to contact someone for help if you are in danger,” said Capt Koekemoer.
“Do not leave the other person behind, except if it is too dangerous.” She said women should plan their routes ahead of time and try to avoid walking at night.
They should know their neighbourhoods and be aware of nearby businesses, their hours of operation and their locations.
Avoid taking shortcuts, walking in bushy areas and alleyways. They should dress so that it is easy for them to run if they need to. If possible they should not carry a purse and walk and talk on a cell phone.
“Women should be aware of their surroundings when walking and they should walk assertively.
“If you sense you are being followed, immediately go to the opposite side of the street and head for the nearest open business or occupied dwelling.
“When seeking help from the occupant of a residence, yell fire as opposed to help, rape or murder and use any means necessary to draw attention to the situation.
“Inform anyone you know well, where you are going and when you will return, when you meet a new friend for the first time and to rather exchange phone numbers and not addresses with new people you meet.”
Capt Koekemoer said it is important to keep someone informed of your whereabouts and especially when dating a man for the first time.
Women should avoid accepting lifts from strangers and refrain from going to bars or clubs by themselves, even if some restrictions are lifted for restaurants and bars during level 3 of lockdown.
She advised women to rather socialise in the comfort if their own homes as taverns are prohibited during lockdown anyway.
“Do not allow alcohol or drugs to cloud your common sense.
“Know what your personal social standards are and stick to them.
“Do not allow your judgment to be overruled by an aggressive pursuer.”
She urged women not to wait to report a case of rape, but to rather report it to the police immediately.
“Do not wash, bath or shower before your medical examination and clothes should not be washed because it is crucial for further investigation. “Be responsible parents and know where your kids are at all times,” concluded Capt Koekemoer. Any person has the right to say no.
