Five reasons you don’t want to have sex

There are so many reasons why you might no longer be interested in getting naked and rolling around on any given night. You might have had a rough day at the office, are feeling depressed about an issue or two or maybe there’s just no time.

According to Women’s Health SA there can be other issues at play, some that you may not even know are problems. Maybe you’re not feeling at home in your body or your partner said something that you just can’t seem to shake.

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Here are some of the common reasons why

1. You’ve been hopping from one relationship to the other:

Women’s Health suggests that having more sexual partners doesn’t make you a better lover. Serial dater’s often jump from one relationship to the next in search of a perfect partner forgetting that no-one is perfect. If getting in and out of relationships seems easy, you may also be dealing with an underlying fear of intimacy.  There’s absolutely nothing wrong with having a little fun but so pay close attention to your reasons.

2. He’s not that good in bed

Many women will know this, an excellent partner who is just perfect with kids and everything else but the bed! This can be very frustrating especially for women who love a little rolling under the sheets every now and again, but is this more important to you than a family man? do talk to your partner about what yo love and don’t, spice things up and give him hints, it might just work!

3. Your partner is busy googling other women in-front of you

Boo-Hoo, what the hell? This might make a lot of women’s blood boil and get them angry so much that the last thing they want is jump in bed with their partner. If your partner is doing this and you don’t like it, talk to him or better yet smack him, whatever you do make sure you make him understand how you feel about this and what it’s doing to you.

4. You’re not feeling great about your body

Your body is your weapon in bed, how it looks should not be that much of an issue as long as you enjoy what you are doing but most women worry a lot about their breasts, silly stretchmarks, belly fat or anything else that might cause discomfort. If your body worries you then you might want to start hitting the gym, eating healthy or doing exercises that might make you feel comfortable with your body.

5. You think it’s your birth control pill

Women’s Health says It’s easy to blame hormones if you’re not all hot in the sheets these days. But if you think it’s the pill you’re on (and don’t want to get off of it for physical or, well, birth control reasons), you may assume you’re doomed to a cooled-off sex life. Taking the pill doesn’t determine your bedroom destiny, so if you’re having issues, it’s time to seek out the real cause.

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