From challenges to champion: Daveyton woman marks 25-year journey with cerebral palsy

As she prepares to celebrate her 25th birthday on April 7, Daveyton resident Noxolo Kunene, affectionately known as Noxy, is marking more than just a milestone – she is celebrating a life defined by resilience, determination and quiet strength.

Living with cerebral palsy, Noxy has faced challenges affecting her mobility and speech, yet her journey reflects perseverance and a refusal to be defined by limitations.

From academics to sport and community involvement, she continues to inspire those around her.

“I’ve faced many challenges, but I’ve never allowed my condition to define who I am,” she said.

“I’ve learned to focus on what I can do, not what I can’t.”

Her mother, Cynthia Busisiwe Kunene, recalls the early days after her diagnosis as overwhelming and uncertain.

“At first, I felt completely lost, confused and scared. I didn’t know what the future would hold,” she said.

With the family’s support, those early years became a journey of small but meaningful victories.

“It was a constant balancing act; there were exhausting days, but every small milestone felt like a triumph,” she added.

Despite the challenges, Noxy’s determination became evident from a young age.

During her school years, she excelled academically, earned medals in sports and took on leadership roles, including serving as a senior councillor.

Moments of recognition, her mother said, made every struggle worthwhile.

“Seeing others recognise her abilities reminded me that every effort was worth it.”

After completing her schooling at Muriel Brand School in Brakpan, she went on to work as an assistant teacher, using her experience to uplift and support others.

Her journey in sport has also been a defining part of her growth.

As a member of the KwaThema Disability Club Academy, she continues to challenge barriers and advocate for inclusion.

“Being part of the team showed me that I belong, just like anyone else,” she said.

“Disability does not mean inability.”

In 2025, she reached another milestone after qualifying to participate in a Cerebral Palsy Awareness Day celebration, further highlighting her progress and determination.

For her sister, Nonhlanhla Khoza, growing up alongside Noxy has been both inspiring and life-changing.
“It’s taught me love, patience and strength. I wouldn’t trade her for anything,” she said.

Khoza added that her sister’s determination continues to shine through, even in everyday challenges.
“She still shows up and gives her best. I know nothing will stop her.”

Motivated by the support system around her, Noxy says her strength comes from those who see her beyond her condition.

“What keeps me going is the love and support I get from my family and my church. They don’t see me for my disability, they see me for who I am, and that gives me strength,” she said.

Looking ahead, she hopes to grow further, particularly in sport and personal development, continuing to teach herself reading and writing skills.

“I want to find a club, a team, or even sponsors so I can train and compete more often because I know I can do more. One day, I want to represent South Africa,” she said.

Beyond her personal ambitions, she hopes to see greater opportunities for people living with disabilities.

She wishes there were more schools and after-school opportunities.

“I want people with disabilities to be given equal chances, to be supported, and not be left behind,” she said.

As she turns 25, her journey stands as a powerful reminder that strength is not defined by physical ability, but by perseverance, courage and the determination to keep going.

Describing her daughter, Cynthia Kunene said she is “a beautiful blend of happiness, humour, and strength,” adding that she continues to light up every room she enters.

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