Breast cancer survivor Sharney Blackway advocates for early detection and awareness
Throughout her journey, Sharney encountered multiple misdiagnoses that significantly affected her mental health.
In line with October being Breast Cancer Awareness Month, we shine a light on the journey of Sharney Blackway, a 30-year-old woman from Delmore Gardens, who has faced breast cancer twice.
After undergoing treatments, doctors found no evidence of cancer, making her a two-time breast cancer survivor.
Sharney’s initial response to her diagnosis was one of shock mixed with relief.
She recalled, “My reaction was immediate shock and some part of me was very relieved as I have been fighting to find out what was causing the pain and discomfort.
With a diagnosis, I would have some sort of solution to the discomfort I experienced.”
However, just five weeks after being declared cancer-free, she faced the devastating news that the cancer had spread to her brain.
“This second diagnosis left me feeling disbelief and sadness, as I was faced with the prospect of undergoing aggressive treatment once again.”
In 2023, Sharney noticed several alarming symptoms that prompted her to seek medical help.
“I had a lump on my chest, hot flushes, night sweats, a slight rash on the side where the pain was, and extreme fatigue.
“Early this year, my condition deteriorated further, as I experienced nausea, vomiting, loss of balance, and intensified fatigue.”
Throughout her journey, Sharney encountered multiple misdiagnoses that significantly affected her mental health.
“Mentally, I was constantly discouraged to speak to doctors. But something in me helped me; that gut feeling drove me to stay persistent.
“The physical pain and inability to perform daily tasks took a toll on my career and overall well-being. I was constantly on sick leave and had no answers, as doctors would say it is nothing,” she added.
Motivated by her unique position as the first young woman in her family diagnosed with cancer, Sharney turned to TikTok to document her experience.
“I wanted to break the cycle. By the grace of God, I gathered the strength to share my journey as a testimony based on my faith.”
Her platform had amassed a substantial following before her diagnosis.
Sharney highlighted her husband was her greatest support throughout this ordeal.
“He has never missed a doctor’s appointment and always makes sure someone stays with our daughter during my hospital stays,” she said.
Additionally, family members have stepped in to assist as needed, creating a strong support network during challenging times.”
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Positivity
Undergoing chemotherapy presented numerous challenges for Sharney.
“Physically, I lost my hair and breast. I underwent multiple surgeries. That meant I needed to rest a lot.
“As a 29-year-old, I felt trapped in my body. Emotionally, I focused on maintaining a positive mindset despite the toll that treatment took on my body.
“I tried to keep a positive mindset because I was informed early on that stress can harm my overall recovery,” she noted.
Sharney’s daughter serves as a powerful motivator for maintaining positivity.
“I knew having my toddler daughter by my side meant I needed to be a positive figure in her life,” she explained.
As her daughter approaches five years old, Sharney is determined to educate her about cancer rather than instil fear.
Sharney’s faith has been guiding her through this difficult journey: “I relied on God daily to guide my footsteps.”
She emphasises the critical importance of early detection in breast cancer treatment.
She stated firmly, “Early detection saves your life. If I had been diagnosed when I first started feeling symptoms and not misdiagnosed, chances are I would not have needed chemotherapy.
“Regular screenings are essential for catching potential issues before they escalate,” she said.
To help alleviate financial burdens during treatment, Sharney launched a crowdfunding campaign through BackaBuddy.
“Even with access to private care and medical aid, I have many doctors’ bills not paid.“
The campaign provided financial assistance and connected Sharney with others fighting similar battles.
Looking ahead, Sharney aspires to travel the world by sharing her story and raising awareness about breast cancer.
“I would love to teach others about advocating for their personal health. I aim to educate others about the importance of early detection and advocacy for personal health.
“Cancer should not mean the end of your story. It should be the start of a new one.”
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