Woman reflects on her childhood growing up in Thembisa
Growing up, Thembisa was a place full of energy and simple joys. One of my favourite memories is from the time before technology took over.
I am Palesa Mailula, born and raised in Thembisa, specifically in the Winnie Mandela section.
I spent 22 years here, and this community has shaped who I am today. Growing up, Thembisa was a place full of energy and simple joys.
One of my favourite memories is from the time before technology took over. Before smartphones and television were everywhere, we spent our days outside playing indigenous games with other children.
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It was a time when life was about interaction, fun, and making the most of what we had.
What I love most about Thembisa is the authenticity of its people.
There is no pressure to fake your life or pretend to be something you’re not. Here, we live with what we have, and there is beauty in that simplicity.
The honesty and genuine spirit of Thembisans is something that stands out and makes this place feel like home.
For me, the library is my go-to place. It is not just about books; it is a space where I can discover more about the world and people and it motivates me to focus on academics. It is a quiet space where I can reflect, learn, and grow.
Although I have not experienced a single moment in Thembisa that has dramatically changed my life, I feel every day here reminds me of the strength and resilience this community offers. Living here made me stronger and more determined.
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One of the biggest challenges I see in Thembisa is teenage pregnancy.
It is a tough issue that seems difficult to tackle. I believe the change can start with individuals like me, motivating ourselves and pushing forward to show our abilities and capabilities. If we focus on inspiring ourselves, we can inspire others.
Thembisa is a place I would describe as authentic, creative, and innovative. There is an endless stream of unique ideas and talents flowing from this community, and this is one reason I am so proud to call this place home.
As for something most people do not know about me, I get bored easily in public. It is a quirky trait, but one that keeps me seeking new experiences and challenges.
The change I would love to see in Thembisa is peace, especially concerning violence and robberies.
We need to create a safer environment for everyone, and that starts with a collective effort to stop these negative elements from taking hold of our community.
One piece of advice I received that stuck with me is from Mr Bukhosi Mkhize, founder of uBukhosi Prints and Engraving.
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He told me, “Never group yourself with other people because you will start doing and talking like them.”
This advice has helped me stay true to myself and avoid being influenced by others in a way that does not align with my values.
To me, home means being able to step out of my comfort zone, speak my mind freely, and embrace who I am.
Thembisa is where I can be authentic and live my truth, and that makes it truly special.
