What to know about renting with a friend or partner

Renting a property with a friend or partner can be a fantastic way to share costs and enjoy a larger, more desirable living space. However, Seeff’s rental agents say that it should always be done with forethought to avoid potential future pitfalls, including a fallout if the relationship sours down the road.

Shared living offers significant financial benefits as splitting rent, deposits, and utilities make higher-end properties more accessible. Beyond finances, sharing a home with a friend or partner can offer companionship and shared responsibility, making the rental experience more enjoyable.

Seeff, however, recommends proactive measures and clear agreements to prevent legal headaches if the living situation deteriorates, and offer a few important pointers:

The rental agreement. The person whose name is on the lease agreement is the person who is responsible for the rent payments, and the property itself. It is therefore recommended that the parties agree upfront whether the agreement should be done in one person’s name, or jointly. If only one part signs the lease, then that person will be the legal tenant and responsible for the rent and the property.

All parties to the lease agreement are responsible. Seeff highlights further that if more than one party enters into the lease agreement, then the lease usually includes a clause about the joint and several liability of the parties. That means that both parties to the lease agreement are jointly, as well as individually responsible for the entire rent amount and any damages to the property, even if the issue is primarily your housemate’s fault.

Early lease termination. It is also advisable that the parties request that a clause is included which deals with the possible early termination by one of the parties, and the process and potential costs. Generally this would require that the remaining tenant enters into a new lease. That said, the parties should make provision for the process of finding a replacement tenant, and how the departing tenant’s portion of the deposit will be handled.

Sub-letting is usually not permitted. Most lease agreements specifically state that subletting is not permitted, and the main tenant/s may therefore not enter into a sub-lease agreement with roommates. If only one person signs the lease agreement, he/she must therefore check whether there is a provision that the landlord must grant permission for additional occupants or roommates.

Financial contributions. This is often a sticky point, and it is best to agree upfront, preferably in writing to avoid any future misunderstandings, on how the financial contributions to the property expenses will be shared. This should include the exact apportionment of the rental deposit, monthly rent, cost of utilities, and other shared household expenses. Establish a clear system for tracking payments.

House rules. Sharing accommodation with someone else can cause friction. Differing lifestyles can lead to clashes in daily routines, noise levels, and aspects such as cleanliness standards. Avoid issues by putting house rules in place to regulate aspects such as noise, visitors, and who will be responsible for which chores. Lack of clarity can lead to resentment and an unpleasant co-living experience.

Keep meticulous records. Always keep records of all shared payments (rent, utilities, etc.). Using a shared online spreadsheet can ensure transparency and prevent financial disputes. Keep copies of all agreements, communication (emails, messages), and payment records. This documentation can be crucial if legal disputes arise with a flat mate or the landlord.

Renting with a friend or partner can be a great cost saver, and provide a route to a better lifestyle such as sharing a nice house for example. Being aware of potential pitfalls and establishing clear agreements from the outset, can significantly reduce the risk of legal problems if the relationship dynamics change, ensuring a smoother and less stressful rental journey.
Issued by Gina Meintjes