Sexual predators often prey on those they deem weaker than themselves, leaving victims trying to pick up the pieces of their lives.
A sexual offence constitutes of sex without consent, unwanted sexual touching, or being forced to engage in a humiliating sexual activity.
In an attempt to try and ensure the safety of the community, Captain Shooz Magudulela, police spokesperson, has given a guideline to minimise the possibility of being sexually assaulted.
Vulnerability of an attack increases when:
Walking alone in dark and deserted places at night and if you look uncertain of your surroundings.
Talking to strangers.
Stopping for stranded vehicles or people, or if your vehicle is faulty and you have to stop for help.
When going out:
Be aware of your surroundings.
Be alert at traffic lights and stop streets.
If walking, one should stay close to the curb and face oncoming traffic.
Try and keep to well-lit areas or where there are people.
Do not hitch-hike.
Do not pick up hitch-hikers.
At home
Do not allow a stranger into your home, even if he is delivering something or providing a service. Ask for an identity document or phone his/her office to check his/her identity.
Invest in the best locks and security you can afford.
Never tell anyone that you are alone at home, and ensure children also know not to do so.
Know your neighbours and together plan ahead for how you will respond in a crisis.
Know your local police station, and discuss safety matters with the police.
On a date
Do not allow anyone to touch you in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable. Be firm and clear and say NO!
Do not leave a party or social event with someone you do not know or have just met.
Ask friends for help if someone ignores you when you say no.
Remember: most rape victims know the rapist.
In a case of rape
Try not to panic.
Common sense is your best defence.
You cannot always defend yourself and your resistance may cause serious injury.
If the attacker is dangerous, cooperate and try to negotiate.
Submission is not consent.
Try and remember what the attacker looks like – his age, race, height, hair colour, scars, tattoos, clothes, voice, jewellery.
Scream, yell or run away if you possibly can.
Do not bath or change your clothes after an attack; keep all the evidence so that it can be used by the police for further investigation.
Report the crime to the police straight away; go to the police station or phone 10111.
People are reminded no one has the right to force them into any form of sexual activity, no matter what their relationship with the person is.
This means no one can force you to have sex, or touch you in a sexual way without your consent, or force you to perform sexual activity you find unpleasant or humiliating.
“Remember, a sexual assault is not your fault,” concluded Captain Magudulela.
