Child abuse and knowing your rights
Parents or caregivers must always act in the best interest of the child, as child protection starts at home. When there are indications that a child has been abused, the matter must be reported to the police.
As part of raising awareness of child abuse, Captain Shooz Magudulela felt it was important to inform residents of certain aspects relating thereto.
Sexual abuse
Forcing a child to touch you in an inappropriate way.
Exposing a child to pornographic material.
Touching a child inappropriately.
Physical abuse
Hitting or hurting a child to relieve your own frustration.
Emotional abuse
To degrade, threaten or to yell at a child.
Neglect
Not taking proper care of a child, for example not cleaning, clothing or feeding a child.
Perpetrators responsible for abuse are often known to the child.
They could be people who abuse their positions of trust by abusing children when they are actually supposed to be looking after the children.
They could be parents, family members, friends or neighbours.
According to Captain Magudulela, children are especially vulnerable over weekends and holidays when they are home alone.
Parents or caregivers must always know where and with whom their children are at all times.
Parents or caregivers must always act in the best interest of the child, as child protection starts at home.
When there are indications that a child has been abused, the matter must be reported to the police.
“Children have the right to be cared for and feel safe,” said Captain Magudulela.
Safety plan for children
If you are feeling threatened, tell someone that you trust.
Never allow abuse to become a secret between you and the abuser.
If someone has already abused you, do not protect that person but report it.
If you are not believed, tell someone else. Go to a clinic and tell the sister; she must take action.
You can report abuse at a police station, or at school by telling a teacher you can trust.
You can also call the toll-free Childline number at 0800 05 55 55.
