On Friday, Mamelodi men were encouraged to break the silence and start talking about issues that affect them, especially when it comes to unemployment, mental health, abuse, and other social issues.

The group was attending the Men’s Dialogue programme, organised by Tsalanang NPO and Men and Boys Advocates, and held at Stanza Bopape Community Hall in Mamelodi East.

One of the organisers, Tshepo Ramoncha, said the programme is aimed at bringing together men and boys to engage in a meaningful discussion on positive masculinity, gender based violence prevention, mental health, and the important role of men in building safer, healthier, and more inclusive communities.

Ramoncha said that the Men’s Dialogue programme is a safe haven for men to discuss daily social issues, challenges, and mental health.

“The dialogue helps men to break the silence because there is a lot that men go through every day, but they keep quiet,” said Ramoncha.

“We believe your participation and message will contribute significantly to the success of this important dialogue and strengthen collaboration between government, civil society and local communities,” said Ramoncha.

During the discussion, the issue of unemployment was among the topics. This is because unemployed men are often not taken seriously because they don’t have money to provide for their families, children, and partners.

One of the guests was Jonathan Ndlovu from the National Prosecuting Authority (NPA), who spoke about the services available at the Mamelodi Magistrates Court.

Ndlovu further touched on issues of child maintenance, unemployment and gender-based violence. Ndlovu said it is important to take care of a child from the day the child is born.

Other services he talked about include domestic violence counselling, sexual offence reporting, physical assault, and emotional and economic abuse support.

Ramoncha added that the country’s unemployment problem is very serious. Some men can also suffer mental stress caused by past partners who want more money for maintenance.

The event was also attended by Mamelodi police and Mamelodi Women’s Brigades.

Ramoncha further noted this is not a single event; meetings occur every Tuesday at Sibusekile Day Care in Mamelodi East at 17:00 to discuss social issues.

Anyone who wants to attend the Men’s Dialogue programme can contact Tshepo Ramoncha on 074 847 5507.