POLOKWANE – Bullying is a never-ending battle that teachers, parents and children have to fight on a daily basis.

The Polokwane Observer spoke to local psychologist Maredi Mothapo about the effects on bullying on children.

“Bullying can have a negative impact on the development of a child. The child might have a low self-esteem or grow up with lots of self-doubt. This could, in turn, affect how he relates to peers while growing up.”

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Maredi said a child may fail to realise his/her full potential due to a lack of self-esteem.

“Some children will exhibit aggressive behaviour as a way of defending themselves. A child’s school performance might deteriorate and the child might even resort to use substances as a coping mechanism. Worse though, the child might feel rejected with no sense of belonging. This can result in suicidal thoughts and they might even act on it.”

Maredi said things to look out for include a loss of interest in previously enjoyed activities and withdrawal tendencies as well as reluctance to go to school or associate with friends.

“Parents should always know what’s happening on their child’s social media platforms and electronic devices and monitor it accordingly. Create a conducive environment to enable your child to tell you their challenges,” he suggested.

Lastly, he emphasised that children should be empowered and friendly communication channels should be created to help them.

“Provide them with love, support and understanding. Children should learn to stand up for themselves, be assertive and learn to say no.”