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Zimasa in the Zone: Sorry sister, he’s not that into you anymore

How do you know if a man still loves you?

Jumping from one relationship to another can be tiring, especially if you’ve had a number of heartaches along the way.

For women, starting a new relationship can be difficult, simply because they mostly depend on men to make the first move.

Well, meeting someone who shows an interest in you can be quite exciting, especially those romantic dinner dates, dressing up and of course, falling in love.

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If after you have dated him for several months or a few years he starts changing his behavior, it could be he is no longer that into you.

I’m no relationship expert, but I can share a few tips on how to tell that he’s losing interest.

  • He no longer calls 5 times a day (or more!) as he used to, or has stopped calling altogether.
  • You text him and he doesn’t respond, but doesn’t have a valid reason for not doing so.
  • Your missed calls are ignored? Girl, you are just not as important to him as you think you are.

 

  • Oh no, he is always on his phone, chatting to people you don’t know.
  • WhatsApp calls or texts only? It’s highly possible that he is using his airtime to call the more important’ people in his life.
  • He cancels your dates with no explanations, or just forgets them? Girl, grab a tissue because this is getting interesting!

 

  • He doesn’t want to be seen with you in public or no longer hangs out with you and your friends?
  • Wait for it, he keeps his distance from you when walking in public?
  • He gets angry for no reason, when you question him he gets irritated and walks away?
  • He is just not available for you anymore, physically and emotionally. He only prefer seeing you for a few minutes?

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Tell you what, if you are probably seeing some of these signs in your relationship, chances are he is more interested in someone else than you.

You probably have become just an option to him and he doesn’t see the need not to hurt you.

I may be wrong, but better prepare for yet another break up!

 

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