Zimasa in the Zone: Hello gents, please pay your ‘pap-geld’ (ondlani izingane)!
In many communities, men abandon their kidsby being absent, either physically, emotionally or financially yet they walk tall in the street, calling themselves 'men' or 'fathers' - a slap in the face to those dads who ARE prepared to man up.
SOMEONE asked me the other day whether in 2017, we still have men who run around refusing to pay ‘pap-geld’ (maintenance, for the uninitiated) for their off-spring.
My answer was a big fat embarrassing YES!
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Men in general are reputed to be less than keen to take responsibility, and believe me, if it was up to them, they would just have it all without commitment or responsibility.
Kudos to those who voluntarily grab responsibility by the neck! The rest must get their houses in order before being named and shamed.
Most embarrasing thing is to be served with court papers re. Papgeld. Bolova pls pay maintanance🙏
— Dr Mondli Zwane (@TheRealMoh23) October 8, 2017
In many communities, men abandon their kids, by being absent, either physically, emotionally or financially yet they walk tall in the street, calling themselves ‘men’ or ‘fathers’ – a slap in the face to those dads who ARE prepared to man up!
Hello gents, please ask your fellow male ‘chomees‘ why they refuse to pay ‘pap-geld’ for their own kids?
One thing all men should understand is that whether they are responsible for paying a housing bond, car installment or ‘utshwala’ for ‘Amajita’ (alcohol for the boys), they still needed to ensure their children are taken care of.
😂😂i know a oak who fits the description, drinks expensive cognac and doesnt pay papgeld https://t.co/0kP18bsRK3
— gman (@somahashii) October 30, 2017
Sanuba Ngamaxelegu!!
No one forces men to make these children, surely no guns were pointed to their heads.
I bet you, 90% of men who abandon their kids had fun making those babies, so ke Bhatalani bo Bhuti niyeke ukusilibazisa (pay up and stop procrastinating)!
https://twitter.com/SiphoNjomane/status/920306209550405632
Recently, A top South African diplomat was on the brink of losing his R2.5-million mansion in the Pretoria suburb of Lynnwood, due to a R350 000 unpaid pap-geld bill.
The former deputy ambassador to an African country has now challenged the results of a paternity test conducted in 2008, which proved that he fathered the child with his ex-wife, an economist and a senior government official.
Well, If you are going to bring an innocent child to this world, be man enough to step up. That child did not ask to be brought to this world, and by turning your back on them, you are contributing towards an angry child.
Let me tell you this, the world has enough angry people, look at the many senseless killings happening around the world.
Why should you be reminded of your responsibility?
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