“Do not be defined by what others say to you or about you.”

Zanele Madinane

Tell us briefly about who you are?

My name is Zanele Madinane and I am the T&S Manager at Hillside. I am someone who strives to make a difference in every space that I occupy. I take it to heart that what I do must not be out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but to look after the interests of others. I’m a mother to many, a friend and a sister.

What do you think makes a successful leader – in particular, women leaders?

Women leaders staying authentic and not wanting to emulate their male counterparts. Women bring a different and complementary view to leadership compared to men. If as women we want to behave and act like our male counterparts, then we are failing everyone. Bring yourself, skills and capabilities to the table. A successful leader is one that listens for understanding and creates an environment where everyone feels valued and they can bring their best self to work every day.

What is your favourite thing about being a woman?

That’s the only thing I know to be. I absolutely enjoy being a woman. I don’t have one favourite thing that stands out. I do enjoy the sentiment and perception that some people have that women do not know what they want … it allows me to change my mind whenever I want to without being harshly judged.

Do you draw professional inspiration from other women?
Who inspires you?

Yes, I do draw professional inspiration from other women. One person I can mention is Prof Koleka Mlisana – a friend, a mom, a teacher and blessed soul. She inspires me by her work ethic; humbleness to learn and engage others; and ability to lean on others when required.

On your best days, who do you want standing next to you?

My mother, if only I could. She was so supportive of me growing up, and as an adult she was my pillar of strength when things were really tough. I know that she loved me unconditionally and was happy when I was happy.

On hard days, what motivates you to get up and start your day?

My children. There are days when it is hard to even get out of bed, but I remember that for now my children need me to get up, get my act together and show up.

Tell us about the past year and what you did to overcome COVID-19-related challenges (in your professional and personal life)?

The past year and slightly longer have been such a rollercoaster year of emotions. Tiredness from working long hours, hurt, grief and loads of tears after losing people that were very close and dear to me; my mother, sisters, friends. To keep sane, I have been reminding myself daily to be grateful for being alive; appreciating what I have and those I have around me.

We are focusing on strong women in this feature. Please tell us about a life/professional event that has made you strong?

From the start of the COVID-19 lockdown, I have been involved in the ‘Hillside response to COVID-19’. It required long and hard-working hours; difficult conversations and persuasions; holding people’s emotional spaces; taking people’s frustrations and hurts while remaining calm and empathetic. It required that I draw deep within me to get through the past 18 months.

What is the best and worst decision you’ve ever made?

Best decision: Agreeing to send my son to boarding school.

Worst decision: Using a friend’s company for some legal services I required.

What advice would you give to the next generation of female leaders?

You can be who YOU want to be. Do not build barriers or limitations for yourself. Know who you are; hold on to that and keep it with you always. Do not be defined by what others say to you or about you.