Protect your child
During the Easter holiday most children will be home alone when their parents are at work. By instilling these safety tips your children will be safe.
It very important to teach children about safety and also provide them with the necessary tips to prevent them from being victimised. During
the Easter holiday most children will be home alone when their parents are at work. By instilling these safety tips provided by Roodepoort Police acting station commander, Colonel Happy Xaba, your children will be safe when you are not around.
Xaba said, “Children must know their full names, ages, telephone number and address and must also know how to contact you, the police or another close relative in an emergency. When children are alone at home, they should tell people who phone that you are there, but that you are busy and cannot come to the phone. The person who is phoning, can phone back later. Teach your child to end any telephone calls with strangers immediately and hang up the telephone if the person continues to talk.
When children are home alone, they should find out the identity of the person who comes to the door, without opening it. “If a stranger is at the door, teach your children to tell the stranger that you are busy and that they should go away and come back later. They must not engage in a conversation with the stranger. If the child feels threatened, they should phone an emergency number. Emergency numbers could be your telephone number at work, that of the police or a trusted neighbour who will be at home,” said Xaba.
If it is at all possible, children should play and walk with other children. Xaba also explained that in order to avoid situations where strangers may approach them, such as an unsupervised play area, empty lots, abandoned buildings, bushy areas of parks or riverbeds, children should run home or to the nearest public place or a friend’s home if someone is following or frightening them.
Children must know that adults, especially strangers, rarely ask children for help in finding things or for directions.
“Explain to your child that men and women are strangers and children must know that if they become separated from you in a store or shopping mall, they must go to a store employee or cashier for help immediately, and you must know where your children are at all times. Know their friends and be clear with them about the places and homes they may visit.” said Xaba.
Never leave children unattended in a vehicle, whether it is running or not.
Listen to your children. Pay attention if they tell you they do not want to be with someone or go somewhere.
Notice when anyone shows your child a great deal of attention or begins giving gifts. Ask your child about the person and find out why that person is behaving that way.
Xaba also said that parents should teach their children that they have the right to refuse any unwelcome, uncomfortable or confusing touch or actions by others and get out of those situations as quickly as possible. “If they cannot leave, children should be taught to kick, scream and resist by yelling loudly,”said Xaba.
Be sensitive to any changes in your children’s behaviour or attitude.
Xaba said, “ Encourage open communication and learn how to be an active listener. If your children tell you about problems, try to stay calm, be reassuring, and non-judgemental. Work with them to get help to resolve the problem.”
“Practise basic safety skills with your children. Make an outing to a mall or park an educational experience in which your children practise checking with you, going to the bathroom with a friend and finding adults who may be able to help if they need assistance. Do not let your children wear clothing or carry items that bear their names in public. It makes it too easy for a stranger to approach them,” Xaba added.
Develop code words for anyone you trust to fetch your children and teach your children the words. Tell them not to go with anyone who does not know the code words.
