TZANEEN – Stefanie van Dyk, a devoted wife, mother of three and well-known community member, is facing the fight of her life after being diagnosed with cholangiocarcinoma, a rare and aggressive cancer, on December 5, 2025.

The cancer, which began in her bile ducts, has since spread to her liver, lymph nodes, lungs and abdomen.

Since starting chemotherapy at the Mary Potter Oncology Centre in Pretoria on December 24, Stefanie has undergone ongoing treatment, including regular blood tests and scans.

Before her diagnosis, Stefanie was deeply involved in her children’s lives and known for her caring nature.

“I was always actively involved with my children,” she said. “Whether it was sports, talent nights or school events, I would not miss it for the world. I loved doing things with and for them.”

A self-described workaholic, Stefanie enjoyed cooking, helping others and staying busy.

“I think my family would describe me as someone with a soft heart, always willing to help in any way possible,” she said.

‘God must have a plan bigger than mine’

Receiving the diagnosis was life-changing, but Stefanie drew strength from her faith.

“December 5 changed our lives,” she said. “I told the doctor that God already knew this day would happen. He must have a plan bigger than mine.”

The most difficult moment came when she had to tell her children.

“How do you tell your children that we have a life-threatening battle to fight?” she said. “That was the hardest part.”

The disease has taken a significant physical and emotional toll.

“Losing my strength and not being able to be my old self has been very difficult,” she said. “Before my diagnosis, I was the caregiver. That’s what I do. Now I am the one needing care.”

Despite the challenges, Stefanie remains hopeful.

“I believe God is in control of my victory,” she said. “There are good days and bad days, but I keep trusting Him.”

Financial pressure mounts

While she continues treatment, the family is facing mounting financial pressure. Although Stefanie has medical aid, there is the possibility of co-payments for treatment and medication.

Unable to work, she now relies on her husband’s income, which is not enough to cover medical expenses, travel costs and daily household needs.

The family travels from Tzaneen to Pretoria more than twice a month for treatment, placing additional strain on their finances.

“If I don’t receive donations, I can’t pay my medical aid every month, and that would complicate my treatment,” Stefanie explained. “We also need help with travel costs and providing for my family daily.”

Gratitude for support received

Throughout her journey, she has been touched by the generosity of others.

“The blessings we’ve received have shown us how much people care,” she said.

“Some people have made it possible for us to continue providing for our children during this difficult time.”

Those wishing to support Stefanie can do so through her BackaBuddy campaign, by contacting her directly on 083 264 9281, or by sharing her story and keeping her family in their prayers.