Whether it’s an elderly neighbour living alone or a resident in an old age home who doesn’t have any relatives nearby – give the gift of company to someone forgotten and alone this Christmas. Start by choosing one (or all) of these five acts of kindness and donate a little of your time to bring joy to someone who really appreciates it:
- Bake and share
Pop your baked goods into jars, fasten a festive ribbon round the lids and deliver these special gifts to someone Santa might have forgotten.
To make your gift even more meaningful, add a little card (or better yet, get the kids to make a one) with festive greetings and a short message of hope or encouragement. Many elders treasure handwritten cards long after the holidays end, reading them again whenever they need a reminder that someone cares.
- Volunteer an hour of your time
Companionship is the greatest gift of all. Give an hour or two of your time and build a jigsaw puzzle with them, play cards, read aloud to them, or simply sit and chat – your presence creates moments of connection that linger long after you’ve gone.
If you sing, play an instrument, or just have a favourite festive playlist, why not organise a carol singing session. Get a group of friends together and share your favourite festive songs with the elders in your community. Music has a wonderful way of uplifting spirits and bringing back memories of happy times gone by.
- Drop off a small gift at an old age home near you
It doesn’t have to be extravagant to bring joy. Thoughtfulness – not price – is what makes these gifts special. A tube of hand cream, a pair of socks, a puzzle book or magazine makes a lovely surprise that can really brighten someone’s day.
Gifts of toiletries are the most requested items among elders in need. Hygiene packs of soap, deodorant, toothpaste, facecloths, shampoo, disposable razors and body lotion restore dignity and leave elders feeling fresh and cared for.
- Provide transport for an outing
Many elders rely on organised transport to attend medical appointments, go shopping, or attend social gatherings. Driving an elderly family member or neighbour to and from these activities helps them stay involved and engaged.
- Offer a helping hand
Elderly neighbours may appreciate a helping hand with replacing burnt out light globes, clearing gutters, sweeping the driveway, washing curtains or other household chores they can no longer manage themselves.
If you do not know of an elderly person in your community who you could reach out to, contact info@tafta.org.za to let them know that you would like to donate, or arrange a volunteer activity for their residents.
