To celebrate International Kissing Day on July 6, EliteSingles spoke with Kissing, Relationship and Body Language Expert Katia Loisel to discover the ultimate turn-offs in the kissing stakes.

When it comes to getting a second date or pursuing a long term relationship, bad kissing can be the ultimate deal breaker. A study by Psychology Professor Gordon Gallup found that 66 % of women and 59 % of men surveyed had broken up with someone because they were a bad kisser’, says Loisel.

Here are Loisel’s top 5 kissing no-nos

The sloppy kiss: It is generally men that go for the full-on sloppy kiss because a big wet open-mouthed kiss releases testosterone. This can help women get in the mood… but don’t go for too much too soon.

The dead fish: Nothing’s going to turn someone off faster than the dead fish. Kissing is a game best played with two – so if you’re into them, don’t just sit there, show some enthusiasm and let them know that you’re into the kiss as well.

The tongue down the throat: You might not be able to take your hands off them, but don’t turn kissing into a competition to see how long they can hold their breath.

The darting tongue: Darting your tongue in and out of their mouth like a snake isn’t likely to get you a second date. Studies show that men rate tongue kissing higher than women, so spice things up by alternating between a hot and heavy smooch and a more sensual kiss.

The hard kiss: Avoid plunging into the hard kiss (usually accompanied by a gentle grab of the hair or pushing up against a hard surface) unless you’ve tested the waters first. Of course if they lunge at you first or they’re into it, then it’s all systems go.

Loisel emphasized the importance of a good kiss.

“In addition to leaving us feeling as though we are walking on clouds, research has found that kissing promotes connection and relaxation, improves perceived relationship satisfaction and self-esteem, reduces stress and anxiety and boosts the immune system. During a hot passionate kiss all of our senses are activated and convey information about our genetic makeup and compatibility. This information helps us to make a subconscious decision about whether our kissing partner is a suitable match.”

Katia Loisel is the co-founder of L’amour TV and author of ‘The L’amour Kissing Guide’.