From playschool to big school – how to help your child successfully make the leap

Moving from pre-school into a formal schooling environment is a big step not only for young children, but also for their parents.

Doubts and anxiety often accompany this major move, but parents should aim to ensure a conscious transition which addresses specific issues that may arise, so that their child starts their school career on a solid foundation, an expert says.

“Some of the practical things can be very exciting – sorting out school uniforms and supplies, learning about the new routine, meeting the new teacher and exploring the new school grounds,” said Trudie Gilmore, general manager at ADvTECH Junior Colleges.

“However, the increased demands and unfamiliar environment can be daunting, and children need to be eased into the new situation. Additionally, parental expectations can cause unnecessary pressure at this young age.”

When embarking on this exciting new life chapter, parents and guardians should remember the following:

Allow for making mistakes

The lesson is in the learning, not only the outcome.

At this age, parents should encourage their children to be more independent and, where possible, to think for themselves.

“Encourage your child to practice small ways to look after themselves such as dressing themselves, ensuring their bookbags are packed, and looking after their belongings. Encourage and praise them for trying, even when they don’t get it perfectly right.”

Practice perseverance 

It can be tremendously frustrating for young children if they are unable to complete a task to their satisfaction.

Teach your child that when learning new things, it’s important that they keep on trying, even if they find things challenging.

Don’t step in and ‘fix’ the situation, but rather guide, encourage and motivate.

Play nicely

Junior school is an important social milestone, and the time when children need to start working and engaging in meaningful play with their peers, even if they don’t automatically get along.

Encourage your child to be inclusionary and kind, which will help them develop emotional maturity, as well as confidence.

Encourage curiosity 

Being interested and curious about the things around us is really important for learning.

Encourage your child’s natural sense of curiosity by talking to them about things, people and places when you are out and about.

“Listen to and answer their questions, nurture their love of reading – an exciting and empowering new skill – and look things up on the computer together.

“Try to see the world through your child’s eyes, and talk and wonder about the everyday things you see and hear.”

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