Dos and don’ts of Christmas parties
But these Christmas parties could be daunting, especially for staffer who only recently joined the organisation, according to a lifestyle and socialite blog 9to9daily.
As year-end draws near, many companies are already planning their Christmas parties.
But these Christmas parties could be daunting, especially for staffer who only recently joined the organisation, according to a lifestyle and socialite blog 9to9daily.com.
“If it is your first, or if you just joined a new organisation, this most awaited event might sound daunting and full of unspoken rules to navigate – what to wear, who to speak to, how much booze is too much, what to post on Instagram and what to avoid.
Here are some of the tips from the blog:
– What not to put on social media
Remember that these posts are not your usual social posts and they will reflect on your employer, and vice versa. Keep the bottles, cigarettes and other snuggling snaps out of frame, or keep your account private. Remember that pictures speak a thousand words and # are searchable, so stay PG girl!
– Target who to connect with
Christmas parties are the ultimate occasion to socialise and meet new co-workers. Know in advance who you might want to connect to and make a move. It can be that nice girl from the floor above, you’ve been dying to make friends with, or your boss’ boss who you want to get to know you better. Be strategic, don’t be a creep. A party is a party not a brainstorm session.
– Show your fun side
After all, this is a party. Don’t be afraid and remain uptight professional. Show you’re enjoying yourself. If you are a funny person, a good dancer, a joke queen or a liquor girl at heart, show that. People love to relate to a more personal side, and people love fun people. Dance, drink but just know your limits. And for God’s sake, don’t go home with anyone! I speak from experience, this is still work.
– Stay away from gossip
With the help of alcohol, it becomes very easy to vent and start bi*ching about the company and colleagues. It feels like you can connect, it feels you can share similar frustrations, it feels good. But remind yourself: these words will remain, and will taint your reputation. This is not your friendly cocktail hour, and this is still a paid for and organised event by the organisation you are criticising. So if you know you are not in a good place or really dislike your work or boss, it might be better to stay home.
– What to wear
It might sound tempting to show off your best assets for that one occasion and enter that unspoken ‘fittest office girl’ contest that we all have played more or less intentionally. But resist that temptation and stay put. No need to be conservative, but a chic cut and colour, appropriate heels, a pretty bun and clean make-up *this is NOT a Kardashian lookalike themed party. So keep your sexy for the club and bring your chicest, most graceful self forward. Your older self fighting for promotion or project support will thank you! Here are some great ideas on how to look fabulous and still Manager material.
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