Bowling legend’s memory honoured
Friends and family gathered at his memorial to share heartfelt stories and memories, celebrating a man whose life was deeply intertwined with the club and its members.
The Honeydew Bowling Club (HBC) is mourning the profound loss of Thomas McLean, a dedicated member and beloved leader who left an indelible mark on the club and its community. Affectionately known as Tom, he was more than just a bowler—he was the heart and soul of HBC, dedicating himself tirelessly to its growth and success.
Members of the club held a memorial in celebration of his life on Thursday, January 23 where they all shared stories of how Tom has impacted their lives in the time they got to spend with him. The attendees took turns in delivering their speeches and played WhatsApp voice notes from people who held him close to their hearts.
According to the HBC vice president Mike Marnewick, Tom joined the HBC on November 1, 2012, and quickly became a central figure in its operations. He served in numerous capacities over the years, including president, vice president, greenkeeper, bar manager, maintenance manager, and tournament official.
His unwavering commitment and hands-on approach to these roles left an enduring legacy.
“In 2017, Tom played a pivotal role in organising the prestigious SA National Mixed Pairs Tournament. With a modest budget of R30 000, he helped ensure the event’s success by meticulously addressing every requirement, from flagpoles and music to parking and green speed. The tournament was a resounding triumph, raising the bar for future events at HBC,” he shared.
Tom was described as a man of action, who was known for his hands-on approach, determination, and a man who never shied away from a challenge, whether it was building spectator seating, crafting wooden benches, or improving the club’s facilities. His mantra, “It’s easier to get forgiveness than permission,” encapsulated his go-getter spirit and dedication to bettering the club.
“Beyond his contributions to infrastructure and tournaments, Tom was a passionate player and a staunch advocate for maintaining high standards. He was a stickler for rules and never hesitated to quote the club’s constitution to ensure fair play and sound decision-making. However, when change was needed, he embraced it with his usual energy and enthusiasm.”
Tom’s vibrant personality and sharp wit made him a beloved figure at HBC. He was never shy about voicing his opinions, and his honesty and humour endeared him to those who knew him.
As much as Tom was known for his leadership, he also knew how to enjoy the finer things in life. His favorite drink, Johnny Walker Black, became a fitting tribute at his memorial, as friends toasted to his extraordinary life and legacy.
From the memorial, it was evident that Tom was not just a leader but also a friend, mentor, and inspiration to all who crossed his path. The tears that were shared symbolised the void that has been left by his absence, and that his legacy will continue to guide and inspire those that loved him for years to come.
