In my view: Cut off things that hinder you
Let's start by taking away the idea that anyone and everyone can be cut off for the sake of preserving one's peace.
The term “cut off” has been used so callously nowadays that it seems to promote intolerance amongst us as people living in the 21st century.
We often encourage people to cut off all negative forces out of their lives, be it friends, colleagues and even loved ones. Although I may be the first to speak out against intolerance, today I would like to bring back the power and true meaning behind the idea of cutting people off. It is important to clarify that everything that follows is based on my personal opinion and experiences.
Let’s start by taking away the idea that anyone and everyone can be cut off for the sake of preserving one’s peace. Yes, the less negativity in one’s life, the more positive outcomes will follow them.
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However, things tend to get a little complicated when trying to cut off someone who may be extremely close. Always begin by asking yourself, “can we address and communicate the issue?” It is important to help one understand the importance of communication and the benefit of the doubt.
In a world where scepticism is induced by the fear of being made a fool as opposed to reasonable doubt, we have come to find ourselves in this juxtaposition.
Ironically, my point of departure may make it seem as though that my viewpoint may be leaning towards being against the idea of cutting people off, which couldn’t be further from the truth. This is not to say I advocate holistically for it either.
I’m of the belief that cutting people off requires a level of maturity that has been lacking amongst many people lately. People nowadays cut each other off for simply having different views and opt to flock with the same birds who will not challenge their way of thinking.
It is also important to note that if one finds themselves cut off, depending on the relationship you may have with that particular individual, always try and address it.
However it is for us to to remember that if you find yourself on the other end of the cut off sword, you cannot expect people to behave in a manner which you deem relative and correct to “cut off behaviour”.
With 2022 now underway, what are you cutting off? Is it that person who said something you don’t like?
Or that habit that may feel like it has a hold over you? Cutting anything off requires a level of maturity and understanding that is slowly being abandoned.
Nonetheless I think it’s important to remember that ending any kind of relationship, bond or habit requires a level of full self acceptance and maturity in order not to bear any grudges to the cut off party because then it becomes an act of vengeance that will only serve to be detrimental to yourself.
Find yourself this year, and cut off anything that will hinder you. I’ll let that simmer.
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