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Talk of the Towns: Rational vs irrational fears

Fear is created by our own minds, so obviously, if we created it, we can surely overcome it.

Everyone is afraid of something, no matter whether that fear is rational or irrational.

Some of the most common phobias include the fear of spiders (arachnophobia), fear of heights (acrophobia) and the fear of being in confined spaces (claustrophobia).

Whatever phobia you deal with, have you ever actually thought deeply about what initially triggered your fears? In some cases, people realise that they don’t have a legitimate reason to feel the way they do about certain things and that realisation can slowly help them overcome their fears.

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To give you a better understanding of this, here’s my story:

I have a HUGE fear of geckos which started around the age of seven if I remember correctly. For as long as I can remember, I have always had a love for nature and being outdoors and for some reason, I even loved playing with creepy crawlies. So as you can see, animals and insects were things that I’ve always embraced with open arms.

One day, while playing outside, I decided to go and fetch a watering can to water my little garden. For some odd reason, I put my hand into the watering can (being an inquisitive child) and instead of touching the cold water, something nibbled my finger.

When I screamed and dropped the can, a big gecko jumped out and onto my dress. I screamed hysterically trying to get it off because I thought that if it could bite my finger, it could hurt the rest of me.

After eventually hitting it off myself, I felt as though my life (of only seven years at the time) flashed before my eyes. Ever since that traumatic experience I’ve always feared the little guys.

The common house gecko is a small lizard usually seen on ceilings or climbing house walls. Photo: Pixabay.
My second biggest fear, the irrational one, was the fear of frogs (ranidaphobia).
Why I was scared of them you might ask… I have no clue. A frog has never done anything bad to me, nor has it ever been anywhere too close for comfort, so I really don’t know why I was so terrified of them.
 
Could have been their awful dirty coloured bodies and lumpy skin that scared me.
Did you know that there are over 4700 species of frogs?
Photo: Pixabay.
 
When someone asked me about my phobia a few days ago, I started thinking more and more about why I was actually so scared of frogs, but couldn’t think of a valid reason – not even one.
 
Realising that it was so irrational, I decided to step out of my comfort zone and face my fear. I carried a frog! After squealing for the first few seconds, I then realised that it wasn’t that bad and laughed at how silly I seemed for living so many years of my life in fear of a creature that had never harmed me.
 
I now understand that fear is basically created by our own minds, so obviously, if we created it, we can surely overcome it. The key to overcoming fear, whether its a common phobia or even the fear of ever accomplishing things out in the world, is to always have a positive mindset and push yourselves beyond your limits.
 
You never really know how things are going to go until you experience them for yourself.
 
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