It passes, eventually. Although sober, the alcoholic still has the same illness, and non-drinking alcoholics cannot be expected to change all their erratic behaviour overnight.

Certain thinking habits have probably become ingrained. But as time goes on, most Alcoholics Anonymous members achieve better balance.
The AA program is designed, not as an escape route, but as a bridge to normal living. During their drinking days, many alcoholics made their problems worse by mixing liquor with sedatives, tranquilizers, marijuana or other drugs.

They may cling to the pill or drug habit even after they stop drinking. It will probably also be wise if you encourage the alcoholic to seek medical advice from a physician knowledgeable about the special problems recovering alcoholics experience. Using medications or discontinuing their use without proper professional guidance may be dangerous, and either course may lead a sober alcoholic back to the first drink.

When alcoholics achieve sobriety, they sometimes startle their loved ones by the overwhelming importance they attach to their newly awakened sense of spirituality. They may well go overboard on the subject. Usually, this phase does not last long, and it often moderates into a sound and satisfying spiritual life.

The AA Estcourt branch hosts meetings every Tuesday at Forderville Primary School from 7pm to 8pm. Contact Desigan on 082 849 3014.