“Agree to disagree” – wise words to consider if you have expressed a statement worthy of starting a global chain reaction of mixed responses – especially if its online. You may just find yourself suddenly caught up in a cyber fight! If you look at any article on the internet that has a section for comments below it, you will see just how different everyone’s views are for the same article they have read. It’s the exact same words and yet each reader does not see the exact same story. It’s quite fascinating to see how a person’s patience can rapidly deteriorate while they try convince others that they are indeed absolutely and positively without a doubt correct! It usually starts out with one or two lines conveying objections about the topic at hand and eventually it evolves into pages of insults and threats from around the world via countries I’ve never heard of!
The point I am making here (after much ado), is that you shouldn’t take too much notice of criticism when someone doesn’t agree with you – unless of course you deem it to be constructive and you can benefit from it. If you feel you want to improve something within yourself and need an outsider to give you an honest opinion, be sure to seek the advice from a loved one who you can trust. This way you will still have respect for each other afterwards – hopefully! It’s rare to find two people who are identical in their way of thinking anyway. Quite honestly everyone is entitled to an opinion and it should therefore be respected – especially if you asked for it! I’m sure you value your own opinion just as much as the next person. I’ve seen many arguments erupt suddenly, particularly amongst Christians who go head to head in a religious battle similar to those in the Old Testament. There are certain topics I flatly refuse to argue over – and religion is one of them. I will happily have a bible discussion since I study it, but as soon as I see the conversation turning into a holy war, I end it. It’s the same with a political discussion or any topic that is controversial for that matter, unless you have your facts – don’t get involved. More often than not, sensitive subjects can easily turn into heated debates with no resolution or a positive outcome. On the other hand, some debates can be quite fun providing everyone participating has the all fruits of the Holy Spirit including self-control and patience!
So remember, if you are going to be daring and courageous by putting yourself on the line for a “character assassination” then be prepared for the inevitable onslaught. Endeavour to leave a discussion on good terms and not in an emotionally unstable frame of mind through sheer frustration. I used to see statuses on FB that were innocently posted either for inspiration or venting, and in no time there would be a barrage of comments. If there was no “like” noted or if a harsh response was made, friends were deleted – or to make a definite and final point – blocked! And the reason for this is simply because something was taken out of context. Some will agree – some will not. That’s the rule of posting anything electronically or otherwise. Not everyone will see things the same way you do. So don’t take too much to heart, people will soon forget what you said and continue doing a global search for the next victim to irk, annoy or argue with bravely from behind their computers!
It’s nothing personal – it just is what it is!
Have a super day, God bless, Avy
