THE grief-stricken Dunn family has paid tribute to their beloved son, Durban High School (DHS) Grade 12 learner Lemar Dunn (17), who died on September 9, one day into his matric trial examinations.

His father, Leon Dunn, described Lemar as a “young man whose presence brought light into every space that he entered”. “He loved the simple joys of life — from sharing a meal, to making a kitchen his second home, to the quiet satisfaction of preparing for each day with care,” said Dunn.

“He carried respect in his heart, offering kindness, opening doors, and always ready to help someone in need. His laughter, witty comments, and warm smirk left those around him smiling.”

Lemar, like many of his classmates, was in the middle of his matric trial exams. He had completed his English paper and was due to write Afrikaans when, on Tuesday morning, he attempted to take his own life. He was rushed to hospital, where he died later that night. A grieving and devastated Dunn shared that his son had faced emotional struggles “that ran deep and silent”.

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“In music and in stories, he sought refuge; in a digital world, he sought connection. Yet what he truly longed for was something far more human — the freedom to remain a child, safe in the embrace of family and community, away from the crushing weight of expectation.”

Devastated by the loss of his son, Dunn said: “Lemar’s journey is a reminder to us all: our children must find their first refuge at home, not in screens, apps, or fleeting online worlds. Let us honour his life by being more present, listening more closely, and walking beside our children as they face the trials of growing up.”

He added, “Though his time with us was far too short, Lemar’s spirit continues to inspire us to cherish the little things, to nurture one another, and to ensure no child feels alone in a world too heavy for their shoulders. May his memory be a light, guiding us to love more deeply and protect more fiercely.”

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As condolences continue to pour in, DHS described Lemar as a gifted musician, who played the trumpet and was an active member of the Jazz Band, Brass Band, and DHS Choir. He was also a talented performer in Dramatic Arts, where his creativity and insight shone through and recently participated wholeheartedly in the Sisonke Cultural Concert.

“Lemar will be remembered as a true DHS gentleman — a young man of character, well-mannered, respectful, and always a pleasure to be around. Teachers and peers alike recall his quiet sense of purpose, and his kind, caring heart and his positive nature. With a warm smile and an easy sense of humour, he brought light to those around him and was always willing to lend a helping hand. His presence at DHS was valued, and his loss leaves a deep void in our community,” the school said in tribute to him.

Lemar is survived by his father Leon, mom Alicia, brother Landon and the many other people in his life. He will be laid to rest next week.

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