Teen reflects on growing up without a father
Thirteen-year-old Storm Simons from Plantation reflects on growing up without his father, the support he found in others, and what Father’s Day means to him today.
For many families, Father’s Day is a time of joy, laughter, and gratitude. But for 13-year-old Storm Torrens Simons, of Plantation, the day holds a deeper meaning-one that honours love, loss, and the enduring power of memory.
Storm was adopted in 2011 and formed a close bond with his adoptive father.
“He was a big part of my life. He made me laugh and always supported me. He loved sports and had such a fun personality.
Sadly, in 2015, when I was only three years old, he passed away after an illness. As I grew older, the loss became more real.
“At first, I didn’t really understand it. But later, when my friends talked about their dads-how they played soccer with them or helped them with homework. I started feeling jealous and confused. I often asked myself, ‘Why me? Why didn’t I get to grow up with a father?”
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According to Storm, those moments of sadness stayed with him for a long time, especially during school events or on days like Father’s Day.
“Sometimes I felt like I didn’t belong. When my friends would share stories about their dads, I didn’t know what to say. I felt left out and angry that I missed out on those things.
“But I also discovered strength in the people around me. My older brother became a constant presence, guiding me through the ups and downs. And family friend Clayton Viljoen, founder of Urban Ruins, stepped in as a supportive father figure.
“They really helped me. They didn’t let me feel alone. They believed in me and treated me like I mattered.”
Through the love of his family and friends, Storm began to find peace. He started to embrace the good memories and stories shared about his father.
“They tell me he was kind, funny, and very close to my mom. I feel proud when I hear about him. I may not have known him for long, but he’s still a part of me.”
Today, Father’s Day is still emotional for Storm, but it has also become something beautiful.
“It’s not just about having a dad here physically. It’s about remembering what they gave you, even if it was for a short time. I celebrate my dad in my heart.”
Storm now shares his message of hope with others who may be feeling the same loss.
“It’s okay to feel sad or angry. But talk about it. Don’t bottle it up. Remember your father in whatever way you can-through stories, photos, or by being kind like they were.”
And with a smile, Storm sends a heartfelt message to all fathers:
“Happy Father’s Day to every dad out there-especially those who may not be with us anymore. Your love never fades.”
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