Love is not perfect! That also applies to the day of love, even though people go out of their way to make it  special and memorable.

That said, you don’t want to totally ruin Valentine’s Day by doing something unintentionally silly. So here are some tips what NOT to do, so you can spare yourself and your partner the embarrassment:

Gifting mistakes

When it comes to Valentine’s Day gifts, don’t get cleaning products, shopping vouchers or appliances. These items may make your partner feel like they are neglecting their chores, rather than being a romantic gesture.

Furthermore, generic cards, over-priced roses or last-minute gifts show you did not put much thought into celebrating Valentine’s Day. This will also get you into trouble!

Re-gifting presents from other people is also a definite NO-GO!

Pitfalls

Never break up on Valentine’s Day! Would anyone do this anyway? Just imagine the trauma! So don’t do it!

On the other side of the coin, don’t propose on Valentine’s Day either, unless you are 100% sure. If the other person says ‘no’, this could be incredibly awkward – so choose another day.

Do things that are suitable for the type of relationship you have. If your relationship is private and intimate, do not attempt big, public gestures and over-the-top romantic moves.

Dismissing your partner’s interests on Valentine’s Day is the worst relationship pitfall of all. Do something both of you will enjoy.

Don’t compare

Comparing your relationship and the way you spend Valentine’s Day to others on social media is a great way to ruin that something special you have.

Don’t be boring on Valentine’s Day. Be decisive and blow your loved one away with your bold moves.

Talking about ex’s will only lead to resentment and heartache. Try not to talk about your past relationships; instead, focus on the one you have at the moment.

Pretending that your relationship is fine when, in reality, you are struggling, will only make things worse. Try not to force the romance if it is not there. Use this occasion to rekindle the romance if it has been lacking.

So there you have it – the dos and don’ts of Valentine’s Day! Make an impression – in the right way!

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