EDITOR – The Orlando massacre has had such an effect on the gay community here in Amanzimtoti and around the world.
Forty nine gays, lesbians and those of diverse gender or diverse orientations were killed, and 49 straight families were affected.
It was devastatingly personal for many LGBT in Amanzimtoti, because we all experience homophobia in various forms. While ostracism and insults are common, bullying and hate crimes often follow, and now there’s this massacre in Orlando.
However, it is comforting to see the outpouring of support from so many countries all over the world. Even here in South Africa, we had vigils in Joburg, Pretoria, Bloemfontein, Cape Town and Durban. We went to the Durban vigil, which was a beautiful evening of solidarity, prayer and unity.
To the gay community in Amanzimtoti, don’t be disheartened. We are lucky in South Africa because we have so many laws that protect the gay community, so much so that expressions of homophobia are actions against the Constitution.
Thankfully there are so many supportive people in Amanzimtoti, and more people are becoming better informed about LGBT, so old myths and misconceptions are being replaced by understanding. Building an inclusive, safe and supportive society all starts at home, with unconditional love and acceptance, and respect for human dignity and human rights. And so many people are embracing the empathy needed for that.
The good that came out of this tragedy was the support of so many people, from so many different walks of life, for strangers – LGBTQIA+ strangers.
Our thoughts and prayers are still with the victims and the families of the Orlando massacre. Their grief continues long after the media frenzy has dissipated. Orlando, you are not alone.
KIM LITHGOW
Founder of Same Love Toti
