COMMUNITY Fathers united men from the Wentworth for a recruitment drive at the Austerville Community Hall on July 4. The event’s goal was to encourage fathers, grandfathers, uncles and brothers to take on more active roles in the lives of children and the wider community. 

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Being a Community Father

Darian Smith, founder of Community Fathers, said the programme is to foster safe environments where men can offer mutual support and actively contribute to their families and neighbourhoods. 

“The movement emphasises that fatherhood is not limited to biological ties. What matters is presence: men showing up to guide, listen and stand in the gap where absent fatherhood has left young people vulnerable to negative influences,” he said.

Programme for the day 

The event commenced with a discussion circle, allowing attendees to share their personal experiences as fathers and role models. This session was designed to facilitate open and candid dialogues, aligning with the organisation’s dedication to providing a supportive, non-judgmental space for men to discuss both the difficulties and positives of fatherhood. One participant, a new father, said it was the first time he had encountered an environment where he could speak freely about his life and the realities of parenting.

A screening of the short film My Dad Is a Liar led to significant discussions among the attendees. The film prompted fathers to consider the emotional burdens they carry and the importance of honesty and vulnerability in creating safe spaces for young people.

Importance of stepping up

The event also introduced practical tools intended for the Community Father’s training programme. These include compassionate witnessing, which teaches non-judgmental listening, life space crisis intervention, focused on responding to crises involving children and families, project planning skills and “the ultimate gift,” a values-based programme concentrating on legacy, character and providing children with a better future.

“The movement is grounded in research conducted in Wentworth, which has highlighted the deep social impacts of father absence. Studies revealed that children growing up without engaged fathers face higher risks of violence, substance abuse, and psychosocial challenges. Community Fathers responds directly to this evidence by creating spaces where men can step into positive roles, co-create solutions, and share responsibility for building safer communities,” he said. 

Smith extended his gratitude to several organisations for all their support and assistance

To join the movement

Men interested in joining Community Fathers or learning more can contact Darian Smith at 084 432 1972.

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