SAPS 16 days of activism

LYDENBURG – Women and children often fall victim to crimes, such as rape and murder.

During the 16 days of Activism Against the Abuse of women and children, Lydenburg SAPS enumerated some of the rights of women and children, aimed at educating the community about this scourge.

According to Capt Saartjie Roos, communications officer at Lydenburg SAPS, elderly women and children under the age of 15 are the most vulnerable as they are defenceless. “These victims depend entirely on adults and the police for protection. Not only are we police members committed to protecting women and children from these heartless criminals, but we are also committed to educating our community through the printed media.”

She said that Section 28 of the Constitution of the Republic of South Africa grants children their right. A child is defined as being a person under the age of 18.

“Children have the right not to be treated or punished in a cruel and/or humiliating way, to be protected from kidnapping and abduction, protected from forced marriage and rape and to be treated with respect and dignity. Children also have the right to go to school, not to be sold, not to work with dangerous chemicals and/or machinery or carry heavy loads or work in a bar or shebeen.

They may also not be used or exploited by an adult to commit crime. They have the right to have his/her parent or caregiver notified if he/she has been charged with a crime. (A probation officer also needs to be notified within 24 hours after the child has been charged) and is also protected from being bullied.”

Roos identified certain safety tips, “Children should never keep secrets about abuse (physical and/or sexual). Report it to your caregiver, parents, teachers, family members or the police. Report it to someone you can trust. Always walk in groups. Report caregivers who want to marry you before you are 18 years old, to a teacher, police or other adult you can trust.

Do not involve yourself in fighting, theft, drugs and alcohol abuse. Report child labour and do not commit crime or allow adults to use you to commit crime. Children should not buy or sell fake goods. Report bullying at your school and refrain from giving out personal details to anyone. Don’t allow someone to touch you in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable. You have the right to say no.”

She said that should any child need help or assistance, they can call the SAPS emergency number – 10111. “If you want to report a crime, call Crime Stop: 08600-10111.You do not have to give your name. You can also call Childline for help, 0800-055-555.”

Roos also said that parents could help, “Talk to your children. Sometimes they won’t tell you right away if they have a problem. Good communication is one of the best gifts you can give your child. Establish an open relationship with him or her.

They need to know they can talk to you about anything. Educate them about sex and abuse and listen to them. Do not ignore their opinions or concerns. Look out for warning signs, such as a sudden drop in grades, loss of friends, lack of interest, nervousness, and change in weight or behaviour. Teach them to resolve problems without fighting or hurting anyone.

Know their friends. Show interest and invite them over and get to know them. Keep a close eye on their internet use and interaction on the social media. Play an interactive role in their lives. Show interest in them and attend their activities at school.

Encourage them to refrain from criminal activities and urge them to befriend people their own age. Teach them not to talk to strangers or go anywhere with them, but most important of all trust them. Investigate all issues before making assumptions or blaming them and love your children unconditionally.”