Spice up your stale sex life with these 10 sexy activities

Everyone has a sex bucket list filled with sensual desires, wish lists and ideas to spice up sexy-time between the sheets.

Doing fun stuff together or being at either the giving or receiving end of a bit of naughty, goes a long way to either reviving a stale sex life or, for that matter, inspiring pleasure and sex to new heights.

It all starts with an idea, a plan to implement and then, enjoying the fruits of your labour.

Here are 10 sexy activities to liven thing up in the bedroom

Shop for lingerie together

Shopping for lingerie together can be an incredibly intimate experience. It allows partners to explore each other’s preferences, desires, and fantasies. Whether you’re trying on different styles or picking out something special for a specific occasion, it can create a sense of excitement and anticipation that plays out at candlelight, in a sensual bedroom environment or, well, anywhere, really.

Romantic bubble bath

Taking a romantic bubble bath together can be a wonderful way to relax and connect with your partner. It’s a chance to slow down and enjoy each other’s company in a warm and luxurious setting. You can add some candles, music, and a glass of wine to create a sensual atmosphere. The bubbles can also add to the playful and intimate experience and as steam rises, so will the temperature between you. This is a sex bucket list must-do.

Play truth or dare

Playing truth or dare can be a fun and exciting way to get to know your partner on a deeper level, to share naughty thoughts, or to mind-game foreplay one another.

It’s a chance to explore each other’s boundaries and desires in a safe and playful way. The game can involve anything from simple questions to more daring challenges, depending on your comfort level. It can also be a great opportunity to reveal your innermost desires and fantasies to your partner.

Steamy make-out session

A steamy make-out session can be an incredibly passionate and intimate experience. It’s a chance to explore each other’s bodies and connect on a physical level. The key to a successful make-out session is to take your time and let the passion build. You can start with slow and gentle kisses, and gradually build up to more intense and passionate ones. It’s an essential starter in your sex-bucket list kit.

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Naked pillow fight

A naked pillow fight can be a playful and fun way to create a sense of intimacy and vulnerability between partners. It allows for laughter, physical touch, and a sense of freedom and abandon that can lead to a more passionate and sensual experience. Just don’t hit too hard, rather build to a level where you cannot keep your hands off one another.

Whisper something sexy

Whispering something sexy in your partner’s ear can be a powerful way to create sexual tension and anticipation. You can do it anywhere, too.

It can be a simple compliment, a naughty suggestion, or a whispered promise of things to come. Why not share a sex bucket list item or two, you may be surprised at the response.

Mattress wrestling

It is an easy one to get going. Mattress wrestling can be a playful and exciting way to create physical intimacy between partners. Playfully wrestling with each other on the bed, which can create a sense of competition and excitement, can lead to some naughty undressing and pin-downs and rolls between the sheets. Say no more…

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Kiss in the rain

Kissing in the rain can be a romantic and sensual way to connect with your partner. It’s a perfect movie moment, and it leads the mind to places that you’d be surprised it could go to, in an instant. Then, of course, there’s the mutual drying off part or the hot, steamy bath or shower afterwards.

Send a panty gram

Sending a panty gram can be a sexy and playful way to surprise your partner and create a sense of anticipation and excitement. Just send a pair of sexy panties with a suggestive note or message to your partner, either by courier or hand delivery. Remember to choose a pair of panties that you know your partner will love, and to write a message that is both playful and seductive.

For men at the receiving end, it’s an invitation to play. Sending her a new pair of sexy knickers, a hint at what might happen when she wears them.

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